Oct 26 2012

We, The Easily Bored

[BGmusic: Babel by Mumford and Sons]

Quote for the day:

“I somehow see what’s beautiful in things that are ephemeral
I’m my only friend of mine, and love is just a piece of time in the world.”

- I Thought I Saw Your Face Today, She and Him
[Dear Zooey, you're not that special, everyone's like that doi.]

Totally unrelated photo.
Blog, meet my new dog Noomi. Noomi, meet blog.

My brother asked me some time last month what I thought about beauty, how it exists only in the temporary (e.g. music and poetry–things that are meant to be enjoyed for only a moment). I thought about it for a moment, tried to synthesize what I had been learning in class about beauty and the sublime, and said that maybe it only looks that way because there seems to be a limit on how long humans can hold onto that feeling of captivation.

I think beauty is not something that lies within an object, but is a judgment that is given by an observer. For beauty to be seen, something needs to depart from the humdrum of the every day. Just like a husband cannot be expected to appreciate the beauty in his wife’s face for each moment of their married life, if for every minute of one’s life, one is given a beautiful sunset to look at, the sunset’s beauty will soon lose its effect. In other words, we are easily bored. We are unable to appreciate an object for long periods of time unless there is a conscious effort behind it, unless we push ourselves to see. If we try to look at the world with new eyes every day, keeping ourselves sensitive to its novelty, maybe then can we go beyond boredom and apathy, and be ever struck with beauty.

Jun 11 2012

This Again

Filed under: Just Sharing

[BGmusic: nothing]

Yeah, yeah, I know. I haven’t been updating. I’m sorry. Hopefully now that I’ve quit my job I’ll have more time to devote to updating this thing.

Wait – what?

I quit my job, guys! I. Quit. My. Job!!

This Wednesday will be my first day back to school – I’ll be in an MA Creative Writing program, and I am psyched and all kinds of scared. Also, now that my primary source of income is no more, I am virtually penniless yet again. But happy. So far.

That’s all for now, I’ll be back soon.

Wish me luck!

Oct 06 2011

DQ Presents: Personal

Filed under: Dead DQ Day, Just Sharing

by Tony Hoagland

Don’t take it personal, they said;
but I did, I took it all quite personal—

the breeze and the river and the color of the fields;
the price of grapefruit and stamps,

the wet hair of women in the rain—
And I cursed what hurt me

and I praised what gave me joy,
the most simple-minded of possible responses.

The government reminded me of my father,
with its deafness and its laws,

and the weather reminded me of my mom,
with her tropical squalls.

Enjoy it while you can, they said of Happiness
Think first, they said of Talk

Get over it, they said
at the School of Broken Hearts

but I couldn’t and I didn’t and I don’t
believe in the clean break;

I believe in the compound fracture
served with a sauce of dirty regret,

I believe in saying it all
and taking it all back

and saying it again for good measure
while the air fills up with I’m-Sorries

like wheeling birds
and the trees look seasick in the wind.

Oh life! Can you blame me
for making a scene?

You were that yellow caboose, the moon
disappearing over a ridge of cloud.

I was the dog, chained in some fool’s backyard;
barking and barking:

trying to convince everything else
to take it personal too.